St. Sophia Greek Orthodox Church
440 Whitehall Road
Albany, NY 12208
Tel: (518)489-4442



 

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 On a stormy Saturday in March that flooded parts of the Northeast and knocked out power for thousands, Vice-president Maria Patelos ably steered our "ship" down the rain-drenched Thruway to a Philoptochos District meeting at the Zoodohos Peghe Church in the Bronx. Past president Marcella Panza and I were appreciative passengers as Maria chauffeured us safely down and then back home. The District meeting itself was well worth the trip. The Philoptochos host chapter did an excellent job of preparation for the meeting, the speakers were excellent and presented new ideas for consideration, and the meeting ended with a delicious Lenten luncheon. Bishop Andonios addressed the group and charged us to "invite, embrace, and involve" new members. He also beseeched us to be "upbeat" at our meetings, to have fun in doing our work, and to eliminate the bickering that so often creeps into discussions and meetings. He reminded us that actions speak louder than words and that when our women are involved in a project, they are active members in the true sense of the word whether they are able to attend meetings or not.

Our spring fund raising project was making homemade baklava to sell at the Annual Chocolate Festival which is held at the Washington Avenue Armory. Whereas some events are rained out or snowed out, this year’s festival was "sunned out". The event was held on Saturday, March 20th. Now, the middle of March is usually blustery and cold and often snowy. This year it was 70 degrees outside. People were wearing shorts, riding bikes, and cooking out on the grill. Attendance at the festival was down almost 75% from last year. Needless to say, we had baklava left over. So we sold it for Easter as well. Our thanks to the great baking crew who made over 1400 pieces of baklava, to Felia Kondoprias for her tutelage, and especially to chair person Tina Karlaftis and her trusty sidekick Dean, for all their hard work. Everyone who purchased the pastry raved about it. (The instructor for our senior exercise class bought a six-pack which her husband devoured. He praised it as heavenly, but left not even a crumb, so she had to come back for more.) Good work, girls!

Many thanks to our women who helped with the many special Lenten and Easter preparation: Dolores Bachandouris and Maria Patelos for chairing the Epitaphio collection; Maria Sokaris and crew for dying the Easter eggs; Angeline Thomas and Pia Lascaris for chairing the decorating of the beautiful Epitaphio for Good Friday; and Colleen Nelligan and Maria Patelos for the Agape Fellowship.

The month of May is a busy month with Festival preparations, outdoor events, and college graduations. It is also the month where we set aside one day of the year to honor mothers. It is important to recognize that there are two meanings for the word mother. There is the noun which describes a woman who has given birth to a child. Then there is the verb "to mother" which describes the act of nurturing and caring. A beautiful example of this action verb was Mother Theresa, whose hard, gritty commitment and caring for orphaned children in Calcutta is to be admired and emulated. We, in our St. Sophia community, have the best of both worlds. We have women, who as mothers, have loved deeply and cared for their children. We also have women who as a nouna, an aunt, a sister, a friend, a teacher or a mentor, have also loved deeply and cared for children. This caring for children and this love for children constitute part of the foundation of our religious and ethnic background. It is love we observed and learned as we were growing up. It is agape in practice. This kind of love is more than pretty words. It involves work. It involves hard work, selflessness, frustrations, and even mistakes along the way. But, there are many joys and the reward comes from seeing the "child in progress" growing into adulthood and becoming a person of substance and worth in world at large.

Our women, our "mothers", also go beyond caring for those in their immediate families. Our women care for the children of the world, for all the peoples of the world. That love, that agape has been translated into the Philoptochos mission—to care, to do, and to give whenever and wherever there is a need. And so this month, we recognize our lovely, special women for all they do, for all they will do. God bless you and may you continue to be beautiful examples of caring, nurturing, and bountiful love!!!

 

PHILOPTOCHOS
Mararet Danes
, President

Friends of the Poor